A heterosexual’s gay imagination can get them into what might seem to be a world of trouble... or bring them the freedom of who they were all along. So, again, I want to cover this very real issue that many heterosexuals go though... especially to settle the minds of those die hard heterosexuals who also experience this and haven’t a clue as to what the hell is going on in both their minds and bodies….

In my opinion, there’s completely straight man or woman who has always been secure in his or her sexuality to the extent that they’re extremely gay-friendly. They have never had any interest or thoughts at all in having sexual relations with someone of the same sex...are very comfortable around gays... have always found gays to be Amusing, loyal, Loving, Sensitive and Caring... and may often even experience an Incredibly Innocent, Honest Friendship with a gay person.... They even voted for equal rights.

Then, out the blue, there comes to mind another very similar heterosexual— one that will meet that one gay person who they psychologically... emotionally... & physically get turned on & out over.... That, my dear, is the beginning of “The Heterosexual’s Gay Imagination”. Until they have eaten what to them has always been known as the forbidden fruit, they become preoccupied with the thought and strong anticipation of its taste.... They ignore it initially, of course, and suspect it was something they obviously thought they were momentarily thinking... or perhaps part of some kinda bad dream.... Then they find themselves preoccupied with the strangest thoughts about this person.

Please note: This person, who just happens to be gay, has said or done nothing to encourage or give this person even an inkling that he or she would be interested in any type of sexual relations.

But, the Heterosexual’s Gay Imagination begins & continues to visit areas where it is sexually turned on and feeling a desire that has never exposed itself before. This person finds himself or herself completely surprised by this revelation... and his or her straight mind thinks: “What the hell is going on? I don’t play that S?_T....”

Yet, he or she cannot seem to shake the fantasies that begin to come much more often and more intensely.... Next the individual starts to behave somewhat differently... obsession & compulsion have set in. He or she becomes confused and wishes these thoughts had remained in the subconscious.

But no my dear.... I have to tell you... You are Straight (I guess). You’re wide awake and aware of what you’re both thinking and feeling. As hard as you’ve tried, you can no longer deny what you are feeling and thinking about this person.... And the real possibility of your Heterosexual’s Gay Imagination is becoming a reality...! What do you do?

I don’t know... lol... I’m serious I don’t know. But…
Obviously, you have several choices. I do know that the human mind and body is exactly that— Human, which means we are open to all types of feelings and thoughts. I believe we are all made up of both sexes; those who are considered straight have the appropriate balance of both chromosomes that make them straight, and those who are gay have much more of one chromosome and less of the other... which is why they are attracted to the same sex. Lose the labels, categories, groups & stigma....

What’s realistic is that because we all have a combination of both chromosomes there is a possibility that any one of us could be physically attracted to someone of the same sex....
Psychologically, because we are human and made to be loving, caring beings, we are again capable of having fond feelings for someone. Yes, we are all capable of psychologically being attracted to another person.... regardless of sex.

Instead of looking at it for what is life’s reality... it is labeled as “The Heterosexual’s Gay Imagination”, when, my dear, you’re not imagining at all. What you are experiencing is part of human nature. Maybe it’s not permanent or perhaps it’s just a fleeing moment in time. For however long it hangs around... one thing is for sure... and two things are for certain.... it is very real.

As human beings usually do when we are both physically & psychologically attracted to someone... our minds say... I want to have sex,  make love to/with this person as a form of expressing my feelings. What we should probably should do in cases like these are just go get a really good Hallmark card that says how we’re feeling and thinking (most of the time…lol).

Okay. Now, if the card suggestion doesn’t get this monkey off your back, I strongly suggest you consider this whole gay relations thing. I’m here to tell you that it’s not always easy honey.... Some of us just make it look that way... ;)

Don’t bother with the “Down Low” thing... because someone’s Always Up…on your down low. Furthermore, once you act out on this fantasy of yours, you’re no longer on the low... you’re gonna be high... as hell... lol...and you will have released something in you that will not be easy to cage up again. Please, take my word on it. There’s no turning back. You can never take it back. I don’t care how many straight shots you drink....

Make no mistake about it. If it doesn’t come out in the wash... and you’re lucky enough to slip past in the rinse, it’ll show up in the lint catcher. You just might be rejected... then what? Now your ego is all screwed up. You know most heterosexuals seem to feel and think that once they offer themselves to someone gay, it’s this wonderful favor they’re doing.... Dahhh, I beg your pardon? Gay people really are selective too (noting there are whores on both sides of the borders...).

Again, I suggest you go home and get kinky with your husband or wife. It’ll pass, I hope,
because most of us who are gay.... We don’t want no trouble with your heterosexual drama...so keep it moving.

I wanted to comment on overly insecure spouses because I recently experienced a silly case of jealousy and insecurity that put such a damper on what was the closing of a wonderful evening of friends hanging out.... If you or your spouse are so insecure and jealous of others... to the point that your spouse cannot even have a conversation with someone without you constantly and rudely interrupting to demand they redirect their attention to you... demand that they come over to where you are for some important something you suddenly have to say to them. If you or your spouse find yourself abruptly stopping engaging conversations and pulling some sort of rank... feeling the need to constantly display the position you hold in your spouse’s life... and suddenly stopping everything to leave when you say so... as if your spouse is a child, then just stay home or stay amongst yourselves. It is so unfair and, to be frank, sickening to make others feel so uncomfortable because of your insecurities. Furthermore, it is immature and unnecessary. If your spouse is a cheat, then address that issue, but don’t torture everyone else when you are out. People will slowly stop wanting to be around the two of you.... I, for one, will not be having dinner with this couple again.... Can you say DRAMA?